When do you get the house to yourself?

 

Question was posed to a group of writers the other day. When are you the most productive?

The sarcastically witty voices in my head wanted to answer simply: “When everyone in the house leaves me alone.” Which, to a degree, would be true. Take away questions and errands and the variety of absolutely appropriate and acceptable interruptions that occur, and often focus upon a single task improves. Just makes sense.

The funny thing is, sarcastic or witty or however you want to think about it, I often wonder about such an idea. Because the simple answer may work, even if only as a joke, but it’s often not that simple.

If you have a schedule for a job, and commitments to family and friends, you may find yourself with a very specific window available to you for personal time. Yes, we can stream television around the clock and find grocery stores open 24/7. Still, most of us will never be outside mowing the lawn at 3a.m. There are certain obligations we all must face, and some will have a defined window of opportunity to face them.

Bit of a side note. I’m often fascinated by how our house feels throughout the day. With the same things running… the fridge and heating and so on… and few factors external to the house… the same volume setting on the television feels astonishingly louder at midnight compared to noon.

I mention this idea because I think most people would also lean toward productivity spikes from times when it’s quiet. Not just free of interruptions, but when the pace and activity slows. Times not only when the demand for participation in other things isn’t as strong, but when the potential for distraction isn’t as strong.

If you ask someone whether or not they want something playing in the background while they work, the answers will likely be all over the map. It’s not a simple yes or no. Even those that tell you they want music playing will have conditions: the volume level, whether it’s something they know well or something they don’t know at all, the type of music, and so on.

So, what is it?

Other people might distract me?

Alternative I might find an interest in, resulting in me distracting myself?

The atmosphere surrounding me, where the right combination of project, background noise, and timing don’t come together properly?

What creates the scenarios where I’m not that productive?

We have a radio in the garage. If I’m working on a project inside, I turn it on. If I’m headed out to the garden, or setting up some work on the backyard deck, I turn the volume up. I like background noise. And, depending on the project, it varies in what I want to have playing. (Back to writing. Trust me, tapping my feet while working on an essay is one thing. Hearing a catchy song that ropes me in and gets me singing along is another entirely. There are times and places for different distraction opportunities.)

I suppose the simple answer to our original question is this: I get the house to myself when I get to do exactly what I want to do, without conversation, debate or compromise.

It’s not just being alone that determines the idea. Someone else could actually be there. But as long as I have the opportunity to be lost and not found, that counts. And when I’m doing something because that’s what I want to do, that works. I’m not kidding when I say there are people that consider yardwork and chores relaxing escapes. (Crazy, I agree. But it’s true. They’re out there.)

Now, if you’ll excuse me, there are some clothes I need to get on the line before I lose too much of a great dry-the-clothes-outside day. I just hope I don’t see some other things to do while I’m outside hanging them.

 

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